I am wondering why so judgmental about people referring me?
Judgmental? Please start by at least attempting to read first.
I clearly stated that I
“never had any dealings with (Antiquity), as such, cannot recommend one way or another.” To me, this sounds like a statement based on a
fact, nothing more.
Do I need someone’s permission to ask questions on an open board? Is there something I am missing? Was I IN ANY WAY disrespectful or offensive to you?
After I asked Jolayne, I received a PM stating “I guess I know more than you.” That response I find incomplete and somewhat offensive…
I am sure many breeders out there will say someone has good dogs or is a good person even if they have not purchased a dog from said person.
I would recommend someone only if I had an extensive relationships / dealings with a person, but of course, I don’t expect everyone to have the same ethics…
I know Jolayne went the distance (literally) and imported her dog from Colorado, and did not drive to BC. So, I was interested to know based on what experience she provides her recommendations and why she chose a different breeder? I do not see where I was offensive or, as you state, judgmental. Even though I believe I am entitled to MY OWN opinions and MY OWN judgments, as well as I an entitled to voice my opinions and questions – last time I checked, free speech was still protected by Our constitution.
If you state that you researched for a long time then you would have seen my old website, as I did have one up until October 2010.
I DID see your website when I was researching, and I did not know it was taken down, as I simply had no interest in checking it out again. Since I believed there was a website, I found a link to a FB page that was created couple of days ago (instead of the actual website) rather amusing…
My apologies – I was not aware that breeders were taking their websites down and replacing them with FB pages, but maybe I am not as “technologically advanced”. How long have you been in the breed and how long did you research before getting your dog? People can refer people based on knowledge alone.
Did someone refer you to your breeder? Did you meet this person or see any dogs from your breeder before purchasing? Did you speak to anyone that owned a dog from your breeder?
Knowledge is an amazing thing, and we will never have enough. One doesn’t need to breed umpteen amounts of litters or sell a lot of dogs to have knowledge or mean they are good. One can have a flashy website with bad dogs, or website with stolen photo’s of other peoples dogs, does this make them someone you should purchase from? In saying this I am not in anyway insinuating the breeder of your dog is one of these, I am just making a point to what you wrote.
I am struggling to see how any of this is relevant or how you are making a point. As I said – a referral is an issue of ETHICS for me, since it reflects on me – nothing more.
All I see in your post is an attempt to turn my very simple question into a personal fight…I don’t believe I owe you or anyone else any explanations.
If you want to discuss my experience, relationship with my breeder or any other topics of interest, please send me an email. I would gladly converse with you, as long as we can stay civil and avoid personal insults, of course.
Please don’t respond on this forum as I am not going to waste any more of my time or make other people read this nonsense.
I WOULD LIKE TO SINCERELY APPOLOGISE TO EVERYONE WHO HAD TO READ THIS – WHAT I SAID WAS OBVIOUSLY TWISTED IN AN ATTEMPT TO START A PERSONAL FIGHT. I AM VERY SORRY UNRELATED PEOPLE HAD TO READ THIS.
Have a great evening,
Alla